tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2460448667975629711.post1438342475403444731..comments2023-06-15T06:35:57.251-07:00Comments on The Delicate BALANCE: I am not Shocked or Surprised...kellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00270278485457022184noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2460448667975629711.post-72791547344464962122011-01-19T08:11:17.880-08:002011-01-19T08:11:17.880-08:00Tori- In the beginning of this blog.. I was trans...Tori- In the beginning of this blog.. I was transfering my post from the ODR site.. to give the background. Then I got a new comp and they wouldn't copy. I can make a background post.. it might help.. and help me as I write it. Hugs, Kellykellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00270278485457022184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2460448667975629711.post-5315915534166421152011-01-17T19:45:54.756-08:002011-01-17T19:45:54.756-08:00I went back and read a lot of your posts. Sounds ...I went back and read a lot of your posts. Sounds like we have a lot in common - Oxi (smoking it) with my son. Even when he is supposedly sober he is a jerk. I know he isn't high all the time which give me more hope but I have been through the suicide (twice), intervention, and all the other drama. Dealers, etc. <br /><br />Maybe I didn't read far back enough, when and why is your daughter not living with you? She is 18? Just wondering what happened that she left or you had her leave. We had my son leave during an Intervention last April where he was given the choice to go to Rehab or leave. He decided to leave. <br /><br />I wish you all the best.Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16469486624859667837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2460448667975629711.post-72694494640676101562011-01-11T09:01:01.281-08:002011-01-11T09:01:01.281-08:00I haven't reached out to the wife yet. I am n...I haven't reached out to the wife yet. I am not really suppose to know yet. I will when it becomes public.. and I know I will end up telling her I knew earlier. But she knows I am here for her.. as we have chatted about it before. <br />I know she will need emotional support, just not sure I am the right person for that... If I take a side, it might hurt Doc at work. That's the scary part of this for us. I believe she and the kids will be ok, probably even better than ever.. but it will take time to see that for them.kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00270278485457022184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2460448667975629711.post-78305991923119949002011-01-09T09:58:20.248-08:002011-01-09T09:58:20.248-08:00Awww Kel that sucks. For everyone involved. It j...Awww Kel that sucks. For everyone involved. It just proves the old adage that stuff like this knows no boundaries: economic, age, employment, gender..it's everywhere.<br /><br />Are you going to talk to the wife? She's going to need emotional support, sounds like she'll be ok financially but that's only part of it.<br /><br />I hope everything is ok with the company, for you and Doc.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.com